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At the time of this recording, I'm 41 years old. And if I could go back in

time and talk to my 20-year-old self and give him some advice on how to manifest

more powerfully and more quickly, here's what I would say. Manifestation is not

about making something appear out of thin air. It's about tuning into the

version of you that already has what you want. You know, in 2020, we lived in a

two-bedroom apartment and could barely pay the bills. And then all of a sudden,

COVID hits. As a full-time tennis coach at the time, I thought I was screwed.

There was nowhere to coach on. How are we going to make money? What are we

going to do? But then it dawned on me, we have the power to manifest whatever

we need. In fact, I was teaching this stuff at the time because everything is

energy and everything is frequency. And the reality that I wanted already

existed. I just had to tune into it. So, my wife and I meditated every single day

and saw ourselves living in this house with this tennis court that you see

right here. And all of a sudden, we had a court to coach on. A few months later,

I got a call from a friend who bumped into a lady that I coached over 10 years

ago now on that very court. We got to talking and the rest is history. We now

live in the house. Understand this one thing. Your brain does not know the

difference between what's real and what's vividly imagined. If you can live

in the feeling and the thought of having already received what you want, you'll

be broadcasting an electromagnetic signature that extends beyond your body

that resonates with people, circumstances, and things that'll bring

that experience to you. The second thing I would say is that your beliefs dictate

everything that happens in your life. You know, a few years before we got this

house, my beliefs were we'd probably never be rich. I was a musician and a

tennis coach at the time. Money was hard to come by and we were going to have to

get lucky. Then one day in about 2017, I have a very good friend who's very

successful. We'd go out for coffee all the time. He's kind of a mentor to me.

He's, you know, 80 80 years old now. And he started asking me all these

questions. He's like, "Ramon, what's your uh full name? What's your permanent

address?" And I'm like, "Is this guy planning to kill me or what's going on?"

And he says, "No, I'm going to leave you a couple hundred,000 in my will and I

want to make sure that we can get it to you." And in that moment, I had been

studying this stuff, but in that moment, I realized that I was shifting my energy

towards abundance. If you have any area in your life that's not working the way

that you want it, you can be sure that you have subconscious beliefs that are

not allowing you to let the good in. And by shifting those beliefs, you can begin

to experience the thoughts and emotions of the person that you prefer to be and

broadcast a brand new frequency into the field and start to attract what you

need. And this is why I created the subconscious reset that you can download

after this video. The third thing I'd say is change isn't hard, it's

automatic. You know, a few months ago, I was mowing the lawn out here and I was

listening to Bashar and he was talking about the nature of reality. And what he

said was it's like film on a film strip. You know, like back in the 20s they used

to have film that would go through the projector and it would shine a light

through all these individual little pictures, these static pictures. Well,

your reality is exactly like that. Okay? Each moment is here and now. There's

only now, which means there are billions of nows every single second that each

contain a completely different picture, a completely different you. And the only

thing that gives us this illusion of continuity is the fact that it's moving

so quickly. But the truth is each one of the nows has a completely different U in

it. I mean, if you look at it from neuroplasticity, your brain is

reorganizing itself billions of times a second. You have trillions of cells in

your body that are dying off and replicating and changing. You have genes

that are switching on and off all the time. So, you're literally not the same

person that you were a half a second ago. And the only thing that keeps you

stuck is the belief that you're the same old person. If you understood that you

are a completely different person every single moment, then you can change into

the person that you want to be now and begin to attract the circumstances that

that version of you has now. So if you start acting like that person, if you

start thinking and feeling like that person and walking and talking as that

person, you will become that person and you will attract what that person would

naturally attract. Okay. The fourth thing I'd say is that attachment is the

death of your manifestations. You know, I was a shy, awkward teenager. Not a

recipe for a lot of dates as a boy. All I wanted in college was to finally have

a girlfriend. So, I started studying all of these pickup artists and reading all

these crazy books and going to seminars. And I eventually attracted a girlfriend.

But I had these inner beliefs that I wasn't worthy of love. And I was

attached to this girl that I was dating because she was like, you know, like the

most amazing thing ever. Well, she could sense that attachment. She could sense

that neediness. And then all of a sudden, she broke up with me. That

turned out to be one of the best things that ever happened. That's another story

for another day. But the idea is the best possible scenario you can imagine

is the least amazing way that the universe can bring you what you want.

And by staying attached to one specific outcome, you block the energetic flow

that would allow all of these infinite ways for it to come to you, which would

be way more exciting. So let go of your specific outcome that you have in your

mind. That is the only way for it to come to you and trust the universe.

It'll always bring you what you need in a way cooler way. The fifth thing is

fear is usually excitement channeled through a negative belief system. You

know, before I started my first YouTube channel, I had all of these fears. I was

like, "Oh, what if people think I'm don't know what the heck I'm talking

about? What if people think I'm dumb? What if people make all these negative

comments?" I was thinking, "Who am I to be teaching this stuff?" And now making

these videos is literally one of the things that I'm the most passionate

about because I shifted my belief system to I'm not good enough and what if these

people think I'm stupid to if there's one person out there that's going to

benefit from this message, then I owe it to myself and to that person to make the

video. If you find yourself scared of doing something, ask yourself this one

question. What would I have to believe is true about myself in order to

experience this emotion right now? Understand that beliefs are not the

truth. They're just opinions. And beliefs can be changed. You may realize

that your biggest fears are actually masking your biggest passions. And that

brings us to number six, which is act on your passions. You know, right after

this house, I had the opportunity to attend a week-long spiritual retreat

that costs $3,000. And I was not in a position to spend this $3,000. I mean,

we had this whole new responsibility on our hands. But then I realized this

stuff actually got me into the house, so I might as well do it. At that event, I

met so many amazing people. I connected to a whole new level of myself. And

before the end of the event, I had made my money back. Now to quote Bashar, when

you act on your highest passion and you do it as well as you can with no

insistence on the outcome, you tune your vibrational frequency to the frequency

of passion and excitement and you attract more things to be passionate and

excited about and the universe will always bring you what you need to

express the highest version of yourself. The seventh thing I would say is to

write out your perfect average day. You know, in 2017, I had just started my

online tennis channel, and I met this marketing guru named Frank Kern, who had

this uh exercise that he would have all of his students do called my perfect

average day. And Frank was a little bit of a rebel. He would say, you know, you

can't always go to Vegas and buy a bunch of crazy stuff. Um, but you can have

your perfect average day that you could live that would be like, if you had to

live one day over and over again, this is what it would be. And what he said

was to write out in detail exactly how that day goes. So I did this. I had

about nine pages that went everything from what I was thinking and feeling in

the morning when I woke up, the feeling of the carpet underneath my floor,

underneath underneath my feet, you know, the smell of the coffee, the dew

glistening on the grass, even walking out to the tennis court to coach my

lesson. And I will tell you that everything in that first document came

true except for the fact that I don't have six-pack abs yet, but that's, you

know, down the road. And I've since created a new document of my new perfect

average day. When you do this exercise, if you record it in your own voice, you

record it in the present tense and you listen to it in the morning and at

night, you'll be training your subconscious mind to that vibration and

you'll begin to attract it. The eighth thing I would say is that circumstances

are neutral and you're the one that gets to decide what things mean to you. Going

back to the grad school story, I was heartbroken. I had just broken up with

my girlfriend, couldn't play the violin because of my tendinitis, and I was in a

deep, dark place. But then I realized that it was only my left arm that was in

trouble. I could still practice my right arm, my bow arm. And so I decided I was

just going to practice my right hand. And I would hold the violin and I would

just play. And in that summer, my sound developed more than it had probably in

years because I changed the meaning from I can't play violin to now I can get

really good at creating a beautiful sound. So circumstances are neutral and

when you look for the positive in any given moment, you stay in a positive

state and you begin to attract more things that are positive. Now the 10th

thing I would tell them is to download the subconscious reset. It's a document

that I created for free that'll take you through the exact process that people

are using to discover what their limiting beliefs are to find out how to

change them and to actually take them through the process of changing them.

People are getting clients left and right. They're absolving themselves of

guilt and a whole bunch of amazing other things. You can download that for free

by clicking the link below. If you like this video, hit the like and subscribe

button. Let me know in the comments what resonated with you the most.